We have to be separated for 2yrs before we can divorce here, so I still have 18 months to go. No exceptions. I don't know which of us will be the one to file .... depends if I have closed the door - he told me he has.
S20 is just playing games at the moment - using the situation to his advantage. Its a game I don't want to play so I have backed off him a bit, allowing him to live his life as he wants it. He tried to get a new laptop out of me last week - he can try all he wants, the answer is still no!
He has started telling me one thing and his dad the opposite - he told me the other day that he tells me the truth and his dad what he wants to hear, and then told his dad the same thing but the opposite way around - So now neither of us know what the true version is - how are we supposed to co-parent him when neither of us know which one of us has the correct facts !!
Unfortunately he seems to take after his dad where finances are concerned - not surprising when he sees dad living it up and flashing the cash - not exactly a good example to him.
I have my side of things set - I just really need to get a job now, get saving - wow, savings, that will be really fantastic. Hopefully it won't take long to get work once I have moved.
