Oh my day just gets better - not

H just rang - bank refused loan so can we sort out a payment plan between us - ahhhhhh; well at least he offered alternative I suppose, thank goodness I am not relying on it, it was a bonus payment from him so I did not count on it.

I am guessing he owes too much already - but on his wages, he should have been fine - the slope is getting slippier.

Talked to him about FIL - he said he would sort it. That he had cleared it with them and doesn't know what they are talking about. Yeah yeah - all I was hearing is blah blah blah by then.

Then he informs me that s20 (who lives down the road from him) has ditched uni and decided to get a full time job to support his g/f and her kids ..... he sounds like he is turning into a mini h - can 20yr olds have a YLC ??!! Apparently s20 said he had cleared it with me - hmmm, I must have been asleep for that conversation -

So all my hopes and dreams now rest on s17 being normal wink No pressure.

Rant over - back to doing my sums and thanking my lucky stars for all the good things I have in my life - and for him releasing me from the toxic world that he is now living in.