R talks are nice, but what are you two doing to have fun? To feel closer rather than just jawing the thing to death?
We've been going to dinner once every week or every other week, with the explicit understanding that we will not talk about the R during that time. So, we catch each other up on our lives, discuss current events, suggest podcasts/books/movies to each other (and then discuss those too).
Conversation has always been at the heart of how we connected. My H is not the "typical male" who bonds through activities. Even with his male friends, he maintains relationships through dinners and phone calls.
I'm a little bit more activity driven, but I think it makes sense to let H determine how we connect while we're still in the early stages of trying to put this R back together.
