Trying to stay patient- part 7

[Georgiabelle]

Tar,

Glad you are enjoying some down time. You have received some fantastic advice. My only suggestion to you is to think about the kind of person you want your kids to see. That doesn't mean advocating or endorsing what your w does , however the high road ( IMVHO) is the only road. It can be a difficult, dark lonely road with few motorists and many potholes, and I still maintain that's the best road. Particularly when kids are involved.

Please know when I say this, I'm not insinuating in any way you would do this. X Mr GB dropped bomb 5 days after my birthday in Dec right before Xmas. 2 of our kids have Jan birthdays. X Mr GB said "he didn't want to leave before Xmas because the kids would always remember him as " that guy." Meanwhile he stayed and his mother had her phone in hand to call the police on him on 2 occasions. And I don't want to sound like a snob, but I had never thought of us as Jerry Springer type peeps. I was freaking mortified. So kids got to remember Dad going straight of the rails for Xmas and their birthdays. Please try to hold off.

Enjoy your downtime. I know you are angry. I understand. Hang in there and work through it. Happy Thanksgiving!