To be honest, I was trying to budget for Christmas (and bills) so wanted to nail down a timeline of when I could expect her half. I can't afford to do it all on my own, especially around this time of year. The follow up was also to show that I was serious. I think everyone on here knows I've been guilty (several times) of empty 'threats' or ultimatums over the past year. Knowing my W, I knew that if I didn't re-address it, she'd just let it go. I'm done living in an open and disrespectful M.
I know all that may sound like weak excuses, but it's the truth. For what it's worth, you do have a point, so I will refrain from sending any other 'reminders' while she's out of town.
