Hi Job,

Thanks for the comment. Yes, I won't be asking anymore. And as far as asking about the divorce, we were talking about all the issues his attorney keeps creating. It just slipped out.
I have not asked about the divorce or the OW in a long time.
I just wanted to see if I was thinking correctly about H not wanting to get to close for fear of feelings. In the past he'd just say no. I don't want to be around you. The "not ready yet" shocked me as he would say that last split up a lot. When I would ask about something and he'd say I'm not ready yet. He said that in the beginning this time but quickly changed to no, never, no going to happen.
I now longer expect anything anymore. Just was shocked by his statement.
Thanks again.


M15 T19
D13 S13
BD Affair 9/13
S 11/13
D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together.
Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.