I made it.....mostly :)

[kat727]

Where is your story posted Barb? I would like to read it too. I know that my job is to raise my kids in such a way that they are able to live the fullest lives possible. I can't dictate the direction that they take. Sometimes I can only hope they will come to me when they have questions or need some guidance.

I can't live their lives for them any more than they can live mine. I used to think I had to include them in bucket list adventures and then it hit me...they may night have the same bucket list. why make myself broke including everyone when they may not even want to be on my path?

Love Marc, help him to stand on his own. Has he thought about vocational school or being an apprentice in another field that he might find interesting? Time for him to break the patterns that have held you all locked in place.

Happy thanksgiving, kat