Been there. Currently there. I've said the same thing to my H. Tomorrow will be a good day to show the 180 that you mentioned about monitoring the situation and removing the family on time.
Part of her reasoning for leaving me is that she can remove herself from my parents. She's convinced that they hate her. I don't really think that's the case, but they're definitely not healthy to have around. She apparently thinks that to be happy in a marriage, she needs to have in-laws that love her, and that she needs to go find a new man so she can have that. She detests my parents so much that she's willing to tear up her own family to get away from them.
Wow. How much interaction does your family interact with W and kids?
I dislike my inlaws immensely. But not enough to leave my marriage. I don't have much to offer. It sounds like you've done what you can to fix your part of the situation. She's angry. And I'm sorry for that. I hope for your sake that tomorrow goes well, and maybe it can be used to discuss in MC at a later point.
M:32,H 32 T:10, M5 BD/H Move Out: 9/2014 - extreme anger H Mental Illness Diagnosis: 4/15 Served D Papers: 10/15 Divorced: 11/15
