Kira, I totally can relate to what you're saying and in my sitch throw in 2 very young kids and you can imagine how much more of ourselves and our relationship was lost.
I've truly come to terms with the notion that he is the one with the problems and although I wasn't perfect I was 110% willing to self reflect and make the needed changes to "fix" our R. He still is not. So I took responsibility for my lost items and have worked hard on myself but placed allllll the items back on him that he tried to blame me for. Those are not my responsibility. It looks a lot different when you give back the responsibility they need to own.
M:32 H: 40 D1: 3 D2: 9 months old Bomb dropped: 2/4/14 (I was 7 month preg) Moved out: 11/15/14 OW confirmed and supposedly dumped 1/15
