I've dropped the rope....

[Sotto]

Got the keys to my new rental flat today. Very pleased with it and spent a nice afternoon cleaning and organising my new kitchen.

Had the radio going and hardly thought about H at all for hours. Went to an IC appt yesterday. She mentioned a couple of things that I found useful.

1) When you are working on yourself, get back in touch with your 'passion.' What are you passionate about? Dancing? Singing? etc. Things that you once loved to do but stopped...maybe because you got into an R? Well, get out there and do them.

2) Have a think about your attributes. They might be positive ones. For me, we came up with nurturing, rational, articulate - amongst others. She then said to have a look at what you aren't doing when you display these attributes:

Nurturing (caring for others) - Not caring for yourself?
Rational - Not being nonsensical, spontaneous..
Articulate - I can't remember that one....but hopefully you get the picture.

She was just trying to say that - those things you don't do, may well be things to get back in touch with, and work on as part of working on you.

Back to my new flat tomorrow for some more cleaning and sorting...feels good :-)