Ok, that was a major relief. After Monday's convo with W, I was sure our divorce would have the terms finalized today. 3 days of thinking about what to say and an upset stomach for nothing!
So after Monday's convo with W where she pushed me for the divorce, we had only a few financial items to finalize our agreement. I asked her on Monday to give me a day to think about it - pushing it off for a day worked! When I went today to W's place to pick up s13, there was no mention of our divorce or anything related to it.
On Monday night W texted me to pray for a girl (who we knew from the old neighborhood) who was going in for emergency surgery the next day. We have seen God do amazing things when we pray together, so I said I would pray for the girl. And so, today all I spoke about with my W was the details of Thanksgiving schedules and the update on the girl who we prayed for (she is still not doing well). It was so easy.
I wish I would learn this lesson that often times the things which stress me out the most oftentimes don't result in what I fear. Of course, the problems with my W continue, but for today I can put these problems aside.
