This is a very tough ride indeed. H exaggerating and interpreting in his own way and for his own benefit. It is bluster and bums rush, flailing in the extreme. Unfair and unwarranted. The only thing I can say is the courts generally see straight through this and over exaggeration on one thing if established will mean everything he says is called into question. These judges and adjudicators are not as idiotic as we imagine. Just because it's on paper doesn't mean it's valid, it just seems more 'real' if it's written than said. Like its permanent and true, but actually not.
It is very hard to work through and extremely hurtful. Think of it in the rubbish bin or flushed away, his words and hurtful behaviours. although we all contribute to our own sitches, some reactions exceed the imagination. There is an expression we use in the Uk, "what goes around comes around". Meaness and lies poison the soul of those that do the action.
This and the behaviour of your son will be part of the down day, guess he's just a teenager, will a teenager brain and raging hormones to go with it.
gg, this is just today.
Tomorrow is a new day with new hopes and beginnings. Rest dear one, and allow yourself good food and a little tlc. High maintainance you.......
I imagine you in your red kick ass shoes at the funeral mending bridges with your friend and head held high.
gg, I saw it, I mean IT, the dress that is going to change my life, that body hugging, multi coloured dress that will make my Xmas super special. You know IT. In a quirky little boutique near Oxford Circus in London. As a result of you, I bought IT!
Will report back on first wearing, now where can I get some red kick ass shoes to go with IT?
Maybe gg could send hers for me to borrow through the thread.
Will think about RHC, but I guess it's the start of a campaign. Rest well Vanilla
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
