Rpp - Its interesting to read your perspective on this, as I've been thinking about it a lot. I can see being friends with STBX years down the line - but at the moment I feel like he would have to really recognize and acknowledge the pain this has caused me. Maybe that need will fade over time. And, I'm petty, but I think I would have a hard time accepting current OW. Future ones, yes, but not this one.
