I just can't even with the thing you IC said. How does one even respond to that?
I'm going to post about the H's IC session that I attended last week a little later. My IC worked with me on helping decode it. And what you're saying makes sense. I went in with expectations, and looking back, I probably heard what I expected to hear. H may hear it differently.
FWIW, I have been validating H when we text. He seems to be responding to it.
What am I thankful for? 1. My family and close friends who have so patiently listened to me and taken care of me since this started. 2. A short work week 3. A flexible work schedule (was up last night for awhile with a sick dog - got into work suuuuper late) 4. My dogs, because without having the responsibility of taking care of them - I don't know if I would've gotten out of bed in the last two months. 5. That even though we are apart, my husband is safe and taking the steps to hopefully become happy. He deserves that. 6. Ironically, the ability to really have the opportunity to look at myself. I thought I had myself figured out. I was wrong. Way wrong. ---
What are you thankful for Maybell?
M:32,H 32 T:10, M5 BD/H Move Out: 9/2014 - extreme anger H Mental Illness Diagnosis: 4/15 Served D Papers: 10/15 Divorced: 11/15