still holding on - 5

[u-turn]

It is hard to remember that sometimes. Usually my W seems have it all together and I'm the one with the crazies.

A bit of a strange interaction last night and this morning.

Last night she asked me - when is this going to end?
I asked what she meant. She said "this war"

I responded that I do not want to be at war with her. I'm sorry if you think that is what I want.

This morning she hugs me and asked if it ok if we talk over the next 4 days. I said we can talk any time.

I'm not sure what she is setting up, but I will let her initiate and lead the conversations (if there are any). I'm feeling conflicted about mentioning what I think would help our situation.