Wife having emotional affair part 4

[3kids]

I may have just set my own fate!

She just called and said we are go for Thanksgiving. Her work found her hours to work. I told her great. She was driving to school to take a test and I told her to drive careful. The roads are bad here in Minny. I asked if was still ok if I take the kids in Friday to cut down our tree. She said fine, because she was going to take them tubing but it's to much money. So she's not going to do it. It's a really cool tree place that has Santa flying in on a helicopter and wagon rides and every thing. So I said if your not doing anything your welcome to join. This is when she said that it's all very hard. And I said would you like me to stop asking you to come with us on stuff because if it's to hard and you just don't want to say no, I can stop. She said that's just it. But there's more if you where my friend I could talk to you about it but your not your my husband. And I said what does that mean. She said well it has to do with OM. He is not somebody I want to spend the rest of my life with, I know that but there's more. I said, I thought you ended it with him. She said I did but there more to it(like it's not over). I said I'm sorry I thought you ended it. In that case I will just stop asking. She said don't get mad. I said I'm not mad, trust me I'm not mad. I will just stop asking to do stuff with you. Good luck on your test today, I will see you when we exchange kids tonight. Have a good day.

So she hasn't ended it totally or at all. Only person I can control is me. And if she is still choosing to have OM in her life, that is her choice. So I will just stop asking her to be part of my life. I might have just hung myself but at least she knows where I stand. Even if it's by myself and with my kids. This totally explains the last couple of weeks. I am sad and angry right now and hurt. I wish her the best of luck in life. Time to make the best christmas I can for me and the kids! First enjoy Thanksgiving!