Blindsided and on my own (10)

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You don't have to jump out of the box like a jack-in-the-box. Take a peak out now and then. Stick a hand out, then an arm.

I used to shudder every time I was put in a situation that put me outside my comfort zone. Now, after a few good expereinces, I look forward to being "challenged" on a daily basis.
Baby steps!