IDK, for me to overlook the affair for the marriage is easy, because it should mean the affair (the pain) is over. To be friends means the affair is not over and neither is the pain. It's just my perspective. But I am not as detached as you are which is a huge part of my problem.
Me 47 - W 35 M 9 - T 10 2 Daughters - 7 & 9 Discovery of EA- 8/4/14 S - 8/5/15 D mentioned - 9/11/14 R & Piecing - 3/17/15 Regard one another as more important than yourselves. - Philippians 2:3
