Yea, I am in a similar situation. D has not been brought up yet but S has. -Stay active with your children (they give me strength) -Don't focus on your W (she has to decide) -Make your interactions with her positive (do not look needy) -Get out, have fun, do somthing that you have been holding off on -Fix your issues with "lies" and whatever that implies (hey man we all have issues that need to be fixed - get help) -Stay strong, you need to be a good father and that means keeping relations strong with your wife and if that does not work out then building a stronger relationship with your next partner. -Good luck
W-43 H-41 M-19 T-21 Kids S-15 D-13 S-11 OM/EA/PA suspected 7/4/14 Talk of Seperation 7/5/14 Slept in same bed, held each other nightly until 2/1/15 W moved out 2/1/15 I am moving on