Eleven. Just to echo what others have said. Follow the DB/DR books and post on here often. The vets are really helpful and the rest of us can give moral support. Try not to react to what you W says without first really listening and thinking about your answer. It is an incredibly tough time and it seems it will never end It will end and one day you will be happy again Take one day at a time and focus on your child , they come first no matter what. Take care