That's good you came up with things. It sounds like you need to make detaching your priority. It's hard when you're together but if you can thought stop the wondering as much as possible that would help. You have a tough case there, lost, I'll think on it more and see if I come up with anything else.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15