Landlord Adventures

[WenikiTiki]

Well, I have found who is funnier than Shuffle on iTunes. Yes indeed LinkedIn, you are the King of Comedy. The other day I got an email from LinkedIn suggesting my former spouse and I should "connect" noting a 3rd degree relationship. Pretty funny!

Today LinkedIn upgrades us to a 2nd degree relationship, his nephew has connected with him and I, and LinkedIn suggests I ask the nephew to introduce us.......

So in prep for a house full of people joining me for Thanksgiving I am taking tomorrow off work. I need to figure out how to finish hooking up all the TV's so the football fans can have their fun.

I got over half of the 150 boxes emptied, moved, sorted. I have been brutal, brutal! Every time I soften up I ask myself who needs so much stuff!?! I kind of feel like I thought it was my job to gather up so much. Like preparing for winter, only having plenty of bowls, thread, Tupperware, etc.

I have been having a lot of luck selling stuff on craigslist and eBay. So once I finish the big sort I will proceed with eBay listing. I have been selling some big stuff on craigslist. Less is more!

In my endeavors to move on with my life I am reading a good (Not great...) book called: "Leave Him Behind" by Sandra Kahn. She maintains we should have a business relationship with our X's. And end all the connections, because they tie us to the X and hider our moving on.

I believe this is true. We stay bound, come here and report all their absurd behavior. Unless it involves enforcing the divorce decree, she says we shouldn't talk to them. keep our lives private. Don't share. And slowly cut the ties that bind.

She says we are bound to keep being nice to our X because we hope he will come back. I miss my X. But when I get in reality mode, why would I ever want someone back who has made it plain he has moved on. I deserve someone who thinks I am fun, pretty, smart and HOT!

Anyway, I am a work in progress. But doing my best to keep being detached and trying to do things myself.

Aloha