I do want to add when we separated 7 years ago for 8 mos. He would call when drinking and on sometimes we would ML a few times a month. He had a gf some of the time then too. But he wasn't in love with her like he says he is with this one. Maybe he's scared to get to close and have feelings?? He definitely makes an effort to not be around me and rarely will come in the house unless fixing something. I know he really wants a divorce and doesn't want to get back together. I did ask him one day if he had ever thought about not getting a divorce? He said no. I said well I guess because always done is fight? He said yes.
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
