Wonka- thank you! Your post brought a giant smile to my face!
uR- you are so right. Thank you for continuing to remind me of this. I finally feel it and can let it go. Let HWW go! I may still have some issues to deal with down the line, but, I realize, she is a fool who will never understand. Poor her.
Ellie, thank you. I have not made any decisions about anything and don't intend to anytime soon. I am very comfortable with things the way they are right now. It's nice to be friends again. I missed that. I have a lot of work to do. He needs some serious alone time. He has lots to sort out. I don't want anything to get in the way of that- for everyone's sake.
I am happy for the kids. I hope it can remain on a friendly, cordial, coparenting level. It is obviously best for them. And despite s17's outer shell, it is what he wants.
AJ, thank you. And what a story! Thanks for sharing. I'd like to know how things are later down the line. I agree with not living in the past. I hate what has happened. I can't wait to keep it in the past. I think there is some working through that needs to be done. But that's just it- moving through and DONE! There are things that I've already moved past.
Round and round and round she goes, where she stops, nobody knows!
Not even her!!!!!
I'd prefer: moving along, moving, along, see what happens.