Wife having emotional affair part 4

[3kids]

Now this is just a thought. Although negative it's just a thought. Today I had to deposit money into her account because she paid bills and over drafted. She needed gas so she had to stay at school until I got off work to deposit money into her account(child support check that she is now going to rip up). We talked about her bad day at school and work. We talked about how her work is messing with on her work schedule. On working doubles and such. How she is seriously thinking about choosing one or the other. Because doing both is to hard. How she can't afford Christmas presents and every thing. How school changed a test time on her and now she can't work which hurts her. How now her work is not going to give her double time work on Thanksgiving. And we already told the kids that they where going to spend the night at my house until Thanksgiving after noon. Now she gets to sit home alone on Thanksgiving and not have Thanksgiving dinner with any of her family. Then she started crying really hard and said she had to go and thanks for listening.

My point being this how can one person be so sad and miserable. And not see her happiness right in front of her. Is life with me really that bad to not even want to TRY. Wow do I suck or did I really hurt her that bad. Are my changes not that good enough. Just don't understand.