Originally Posted By: ssmguy
...I can deal with differences in desired frequency as long as one of them isn't zero. The problem is you can't get someone with a preferred frequency of zero to meet you halfway at half your desired frequency. Because for someone who wants zero sex, doing it ten times as often as they would prefer is still zero! LOL


Thanks. You have helped me when I had my SSM in the past, which at the time was zero. As you say, Zero is a tough number to deal with.


>43 years of marriage--My wife and I are now closer than we have been in decades. I believe that my SSM is over.