What happened from 2011 - 2014? Did you give up your indiscretions?
I don't know how one can really build trust after all that. My best guess is be a great guy, strong, truthful, joyful. She may or may not care to notice.
For the sake of your children, if you do get divorced, try and remain with in the house and try to get joint custody with a provision that neither of you can move more than a set distance from the other without the other's permission.
