Separated, but still friends

[Calibri]

Pink -

First thanks for stopping in on my thread and showing support. I appreciate it.

Second -- what does your state say about changing the locks on the house? I'm assuming both of you own it? The reason I ask -- I checked on changing the locks when H was in the full throes of his anger. I found that until we were legally separated (with documentation in place) or one of us was off the deed -- I could change the locks but my H would have no ramification if he decided to break in. My cop friend told me that he could break in, trash the house, etc and there would be nothing I could do, because he owned the house as well.

Just a friendly warning!