Legal advice - pronto. The moment my H started acting really, really nasty but before he moved out, I saw an attorney. Not because I want to be divorced, but because I wanted to know my rights and wanted to know how to handle any situations that occur. I also didn't want to be blindsided, should my H file for seperation/divorce. I'm glad that I did - as my H suggested that I move out of our home because he needed time and space. No way buddy. And that was one of the first things the lawyer covered. These are things you need to know, just so you can make informed decisions, should the time arise.
I applaud your dedication and your tenacity. But you can't change what your H is doing right now. You can't make him want to stop the behavior.
What you CAN do is take care of yourself and protect your children. I echo what Little said -- they are going to need you more than ever right now.
M:32,H 32 T:10, M5 BD/H Move Out: 9/2014 - extreme anger H Mental Illness Diagnosis: 4/15 Served D Papers: 10/15 Divorced: 11/15
