My friend, right now all you have to worry about is you. Hope the surgery went well and you are resting.
Leave the rest for a few days.
You are spinning, M. I get why you are. The thing is that as of right now, nothing has changed. You have no new real information, right?
Until he says he wants to come back and work on the marriage and then shows that with action, you dont need to do anything, except whether that is what you want.
YOu dont have to make any decisions today.
Please try not to worry about understanding her. She does not matter, Mighty. Who cares what she says? It holds no weight in your life.
Just focus on you and your kids and continue on your journey.
If reconciling is in the future, then you can begin to think about what you want in regard to that.
He still has a ton of stuff to work through. You want him to do it..either way this goes as he will always be in your life.
Hang in there, sweetie. Try not to get ahead of yourself. Rehashing all that happened and how and when will make your crazy.
