Hey everyone! I've been gone for a while, but I'm back...hoping to hear some opinions. We're comig up on 5 months since my hubby walked out. I've done a very good job of getting a life and not focusing on him...and that's good for me bc he's showing no change at all. I've been told to not believe anything he says and only half of what he does...we have a very close mutual friend who thinks that my hubby has made a huge mistake that he will eventually regret and he keeps telling me things because he doesn't think I should maintain false hopes about hubby coming back. I've been told that he is snorting a variety of prescription drugs, not sleeping at night, getting really high speeding tickets, and as of lately, sleeping around for the sake of sleeping around. Like, getting his hook in a woman, sleeping with Her, and then dropping her bc she gets "too clingy." As far as I know, so far there are only two. But every time he goes to this mutual friend's house, he's talking about another woman. I'm disappointed, but not surprised at this point. Our friend (who is a man) thinks that his sleeping around means he's legitimately moving on. To me, what he's doing shows instability and unhappiness. It looks to me more like he's TRYING to move on, but not succeeding...if he was actually moving on, he wouldn't be looking in every nook and cranny for fulfillment, right?
Anyway, just curious about your interpretation of all of this. It seems to me, also, like if he was legitimately moving on, he wouldn't be keeping his actions in the dark...but who knows. What do you think?
Me: 30 Him: 30 Daughter: 5 Son: 3 Daughter: 1 Started dating: 2008 Married: 2010 He moved out: late 7/14
