For most the emotional aspects, medical (safe sex), and social aspects make it a non-starter.
There are many erotic playful things one can do that are practically 100% safe. Anyone who thinks sex mostly has to involve even mildly risky behavior has no imagination in my opinion.
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But if your H really does need (for all the wrong reasons) sex 4 times a week and the best you can do is 2 times a week, enjoy those two times a week, and tell him to find his happiness. Hopefully, his happiness will involve masturbating as opposed to seeing another woman,
I can deal with differences in desired frequency as long as one of them isn't zero. The problem is you can't get someone with a preferred frequency of zero to meet you halfway at half your desired frequency. Because for someone who wants zero sex, doing it ten times as often as they would prefer is still zero! LOL
