No joke, I had dreams about BF cheating before I found out in the real world, before BD. Every time he was getting someone else pregnant (which didn't happen for real, just a PA) and leaving me to go raise the kid with them; it was detailed to the point of him being staunchly unfeeling that he was destroying me by doing it, and he wasn't going to ever change his mind.

I even have a saved text of me telling him "I keep having these dreams you're getting other people knocked up, I don't get it!" and him commiserating and telling me he loved me.

Now he's at least sleeping with (if not more) a woman with a young kid when he claimed he wasn't interested in dealing with kids, at this point in his life.

Strange how crap occurs like that.


ME: 38
BF: 40
T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice)
BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R.
10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW
12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies