Signed off on Refinance papers this morning (STBX signed yesterday afternoon).
In order to make up for suddenly becoming a single income household , I needed 4 things:
1. Refinance (complete) 2. File taxes as Head of Household)- STBX has agreed to let me claim the kids so I can do this. 3. STBX needed to help out with daycare expenses for D3 (he will do this) 4. I need a 8% raise - still working on this one but feel confident I can make it happen in the next year.
Feeling some giant relief!
Good for you!
About the raise, ask for what you need! I can tell by reading here you're worth at least 8% more. (and the gender gap is 19%)
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
