I think maybe he got angry because you were setting a boundary with - I'd prefer that you only come to the house when I am there.

He has probably been pleasant to date because you have been friendly and not making any demands or making his life difficult in any way.

WAS don't like boundaries - and may react to them - but you are quite entitled to have boundaries. And if this one matters to you, stick to it.

However, also work on maintaining a pleasant, 'lovingly distant' demeanour. So, when you set boundaries, try and do it in this way.

Hang on in there - and remember to keep GAL and working on detachment...it all takes time and patience, but you'll get there.

Toots :-)

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Me 48 H 46
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BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus