Catching up on your sitch. Wow! What a turn of events in the last week. I am so impressed by the way you handled everything and are staying true to yourself.
I totally get the "Falling Down" reference. H and I used to joke about that movie and having one of "those" days that go from bad to worse too.
You are doing so well. Remember Sandi2's last of the 37 rules: "37. Do not backslide from your hard earned changes." You have come so far. Don't let this turn of events cause you to backslide if you can.
Count me as another one rooting for you!
Me- 40 H- 41 S8, D5, S4 M 19 y T 23 Bomb drop 6/2013 H asked for/filed for D 9/2014 22 yo OW discovered 9/19/14 they're engaged and living together