After researching online, I think she might be smoking pot. She is around a group that I've often seen smoking, so that is not really shocking. Just another factor I need to be aware of when interacting with her...
UpperCut Me: 28 W: 25 Married: 4 yrs Together: 7 yrs Dday: 9/14 (W ends affair & comes home) S: 12/14 (W restarted affair 1/15; moved near OM 2/15) No kids