Need Help! H just called and wants to confirm if the kids and I are going to the Mountains to spend the Thanksgiving weekend. I told him that yes and that he is welcome to join us there. H said that no, that I can spend time with the kids. H offer to take care after the dog and I said we are taking the dog with us. Then he asked if it would be OK if he comes to the house to gather some paperwork, like tax returns, bills. I told him I would feel better if he does that when we are home. He got very upset, and spoke very angry saying that he just want to help with this whole situation, that he told me what he is doing and this would make things easier for everyone. He also asked if would be OK for him to have lunch with the boys tomorrow and I said that I have no problem with it, asked if he spoke with the kids and he said again very angry, that he was just talking to me about this, just making plans the right way. I don't get, I have been dark forever, I don't call, don't text, don't give him a hard time, wasn't even home yesterday when he picked up the boys and was not home when he came back from dinner. So why the h**l is he so mad with me. Like I did something wrong? I just figure that I need to learn this boundaries business. He is the one that left me, cheated on me, has an affair, took vacations with his lover and now I get the bad mood, the yelling and anger. Agh.. I just wish he explode in a million pieces. Sometimes I just wonder if would be just fine to do this idiot D and finish this nightmare. He wants to be my friend, and I am now finding out that he just want to be friends to make his life easier. He is not thinking about his family. Love and hate walk very close... Oh, my heart hurts... how someone that not too long ago was saying he loves you and now is doing all this crazy. I wish I just hate him, would make everything much easier.