So I ended up spending the afternoon in the ER. Turns out everything is ok and I came home but I'm exhausted. So glad my S19 was home to pick up D12 from school. H knew I was there but didn't offer any help. However when I talked to him later he was offering to cook Thanksgiving dinner. And then he sent me a gift certificate for a facial because I had a tough day. That's when I told him thank you and he came back with the elusive you're welcome. I have to say H has been nicer to me in the past few days than he has been in months, maybe years. I have no idea why.
Today I am grateful for all my kids. The one who can drive, the one who knows how to grocery shop, the one who can cook. They are jewels.