Busting this Divorce - Standing Firm

[HPoirot]

Response...

Got it.

HP, I will cease contact with OM. But you need to know it doesn't change anything. You cannot trust me..I have ruined that and fully accept responsibility for it. I am deeply sorry you were hurt by my actions.

If anything, I am very clear that I want to seperate. Its best. Whether we go to counseling or not, I am not interested to work on anything but how to seperate in the least disruptive way we can. I think we will both become clearer about who we are and what we want if we can spend some time apart. At least that's what I think.

I propose we find a two bedroom apt. I will still be with you and S11.but will also spend time at my aunts. Then in June we can see where we are and if we want to permanently end things or not.

I am sorry. I wish we would have engaged in counseling weeks ago.

So we need to continue to work on how to move forward. But not as a couple.

I know this means nothing.

Still a long way to go.

Transparency then? Doesn't look like w is ready for that. I told her about it weeks ago.

Thank you all again for helping me get this far.