still holding on - 5

[u-turn]

Thanks for checking up on me Sandi-
She is more distant since the FL trip. We have not talked a lot - no affection at all. She does nice things for me every now and then - but it seems like it is making up for something she is guilty about. She is trying to make more of an effort with the kids lately though.

The winning "obsession" started when she started her new career. She was put into a bit of a position of power and that carried over to the rest of her life too. The OM fed this power attitude too.

I don't know the real status of the A. I have not asked and cannot check up on her anymore. She does still work with him and sees him every day. She does leave for a couple of hours each each weekend and usually has some excuse. She comes home a little later at night sometimes. There are no overnight stays or even prolonged times that I don't know where she says she is.

My suspicions are that she texts him a lot and is at least attached emotionally to him - and I do suspect that she lies to me and the kids about her whereabouts (small proof - mileage on cars, stories that don't make any sense).

I would love some insight - thanks