Early in my sitch my WAW took to astrology. She thought her astrologist was wonderful because "almost half of what she predicted came true." W scrambled to read her horoscope in the newspaper each morning. She would comb the internet for compatibility of her sign with OM's sign. I used to read my W's horoscope too and was just amazed at how contradictory they were from day to day. I felt that if our M was being left to astrology, we were truly doomed.

My W has now dug herself into a deep hole. A D is in progress. She will lose her family, house and financial security. I am now indifferent at best; she has taught me that I cannot rescue her.

My W was surrounded by signs. She saw the ones she liked, and was blind to many, many more.

I'm with FY on this one -- seeing signs is highly selective. Stick to consistent observations.