MLC W Dates, Part VI

[kat727]

Isn't she going to have to try to be finding an actual job in order to qualify for assistance? I didn't think they they just handed money over without proof of being turned down for jobs.

I know you don't want her to become something that wasn't "her" but this is what she wanted. She may actually have to get a job...Yikes!! I don't know who is giving her advice but it doesn't seem to be coming from someone who knows the ins and outs of this stuff. Ok, really not your problem, just a point that flashed up to me.

Tom, I wouldn't do this until you were sure, no doubts. You have to let go, fully and see where you are. I would still try to get your younger kids with you as she doesn't seem to be responsible for them on her own. give it some thought.

kat