Forward, Its good to see you on here! Yes, most of us from that time frame have moved on, in one way or another. I'm glad you are happy and doing well. I know how hard you tried to save your marriage, your XH didn't want to. I have no sympathy for him, as you pointed out, he got what he wanted. Your story is quite different than most on here, I see the LBS who most often times takes the worst of it. I too wish that people wouldn't be stuck, but unfortunately, many are and many will remain that way. I'm with what you are saying, do all you can, but recognize when you have done all you can and live your life. Life is too short to be unhappy. I hope you pop in from time to time!!!