I don't have much working knowledge with Tinder myself, but from what I have been told from my friends that do, they use it more for like a speed dating app. One in particular has had success catching matches while downtown on a weekend and lining up "coffee dates" the same day after a few texts. Makes sense in regard to your comment about them losing interest over a relatively short period of time.
Whatisis is correct; lack of responses is typically not about you, it's about them. A lot of women using this app and dating sites in general just like to get the validation. A lot of it is also casting a wide net in hopes to catch the "one" fish!
Agree with using earning potential and she should be held to it as well; what's good for the Gander needs to be good for the Goose too! Definitely get the best settlement as quick as you can and don't give one more inch than you absolutely have to. The longer you wait the more entitled she will get!!!
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Me: 44 X WAW/MLC: 42 Kids: S21, D11 BD: July 2013 (ILYBNILWY) EAx2: Busted 1 OCT 2013; 25 Mar 2014 Status: Divorcing & Done! Waiting to be final (Nov 2014?) & glad it's finally over!