Sandi2: I don't call too much. It's mostly logistics of who is picking up our kids on some days. Maybe once a day, but not a lot. I used to call more: to say hi, ask about picking up groceries, etc. I have stopped that now.

Rzrback: I'll have to check your thread out later (I'm at work now), but I know the frustration of living together, being friendly, but knowing you're not "together" exactly.
My W is in the "I don't know" stage. It is crazy making to a degree, but I have to learn to let go. I agree, it's difficult.
Funny thing: she's from Arkansas (I saw your location). We visit her dad there every year.

M-44
W-44
Sons- 11&14
Married- 18
Together- 27
Separation mentioned- 9-29-14
Still together, but not "together"
"if you feel rotten and forgotten,
remember there'll be better days."