So I called her yesterday to let her know I would be coming to see her family on Thanksgiving night. She said she was not sure they were doing dinner, but would let me know. really do not understand why the invitation was extended if they were not doing dinner. She did keep asking about my Thanksgiving plans. I know she has been spending more time with her parents, which is good. Her parents both feel, as I have mentioned before, that job stress and everyday child raising stress helped her make this rash decision. She also is feeling "older" now too. As she has mentioned some age related things in the past year.
Sandi2, Thank you so much for adding some female perspective here. I understand GAL. I leave her alone and work on my home, go out with the guys once a week. I stay busy with hobbies, etc. Not sure what else I can do in that department. I do I "really let go" then? We have a small child together, and short of contacting her on rare occasions for that....no other contact. We have talked more in the past week about holiday plans and I just gave her my answer. Please keep posting here, I am all ears and I will follow your lead.
Thanks
Me43/WAW43..M 4y..S1 11/S2 4..Bomb2/2014..Dfile 5/2014..Settlement signed 8/20/14..D final 8/29/14 I moved out 10/10/14..WAW got D she wanted. I wanted R. No waiting,just no boundaries in her way.