I'm finding that i'm holding on to the little things, making it a big thing, and that is why i'm not interested in being sexual.
I get that he uses sex to feel emotionally bonded, and i would like to feel emotionally bonded before i'm interested in sex.
communication is the biggest thing with us at the moment. we need to learn better ways to communicate. I've asked him several times if we can do a communication exercise...he always agrees to do it, but when it comes time to, he has reasons for not following through. On the other hand, if there is an exercise or game that would get me more in the moood for sex, he's all about trying it. THAT is frustrating.
