As predicted, derm said it was nothing. I responded to H. Validated his concern that I didn't share info with him, and added this:
I'm sure that if you reached out to (teacher), she would make sure that you are included on all future emails of this type. I don't believe it was an intentional oversight, so I'm sure she'd welcome the chance to improve the channels of communication with both of us.
I'm looking forward to meeting with (teacher) tomorrow (at PT conference) and turning our focus onto how we can all support D at this time. Despite the fact that you are frustrated about how you heard about it, I know that your top priority is to help D work through her feelings in a healthy way.
Taking lots of deep breaths today, trying to remain centered and true to myself. Trying hard to not keep score or harbor resentment, and certainly trying not to have any expectations of him or my M.
Suddenly really, really nervous about this PT conference tomorrow. I have to role play in my head how it would look and sound if I really was detached, because otherwise, I know that I come across as phony. But I find it hard to fake warmth and friendliness, especially when my chest is tight from anxiety over this.
Deep deep breaths. And time to give back to someone else around here.
