About the elevator response, that's a good one but lets take this a step further.

Do you see how you give up your power in trying to answer questions nosy, almost strangers might ask? Decide who's on your need to know list, going from who you feel gets the whole story out to who gets the "he didn't want to be married" response. I think you'll find most people are in the latter category. You own your power when you decide who gets to hear what.

You give up power when you think you have to answer questions from people with no personal stake in your life and that it matters how they judge you.

You're doing great, K. I think your fog is starting to roll out. smile

Last edited by labug; 11/24/14 03:02 PM.
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I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
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